39yo, 190cm, 100kg
I personally got excited about training and exercise only a bit later in life, and I can definitely subscribe to RahatonMies’s idea that when exercising regularly, eating and your mental state automatically stay in better shape
When I was young, I was relatively overweight and exercise felt very unpleasant; it was only as an adult that I found the sports and ways of moving that I got excited about and that give me energy.
A couple of years after the army, my weight had reached around 160kg, after which I did a major lifestyle overhaul and started cycling alongside it. As a result, my weight has fluctuated between 90-100kg since then, depending on the season. After that, sometime around age 30, running was added to the mix, but it always felt like a bit of a slog. It wasn’t really until around age 35, when I stumbled upon CrossFit, that I felt like I’d finally found my thing in clanging weights and versatile HIIT workouts 
For the sake of variety, I wanted to start a regular gym program for the first time in my life at the beginning of the year. Deadlifts, squats, etc., have been familiar through CrossFit, but I’ve never actually tried following a strict program because CrossFit workouts are so varied. It’s been really nice to see for the first time how the body reacts when the training is, at least in principle, more progressive.
The current program has four training days per week, mainly in the format: deadlift, bench, and some overhead press variation. Or squat, bench variation, and bent-over row. Etc. Basic movements with slight variations, and movements (while big compound lifts stay the same), intensity, and rep counts change every three weeks. On top of this, I cycle to work about 20km/day.
The goal for the first six months is to find my so-called baseline and start building from there. For example, my deadlift and squat results from my CrossFit days have gone up nicely in just a few months. It’s perhaps also easier to challenge oneself when you have an idea of how each set and weight typically feels.
Perhaps what has always been difficult for me is training and the right diet to make muscle stick. Due to my background with obesity, I really don’t want to eat too much, but in a way, that’s what you should do if you want to grow muscle mass. My mind just doesn’t quite accept the weight going much over a hundred kilos or clothes starting to feel tight
. I feel like I’m a bit stuck for that reason. In any case, gym training, CrossFit, etc., have significantly improved my well-being and body composition compared to just cycling.