I managed to read the messages before they were deleted, and I (yes, I 
) was a bit annoyed that they had no other content or purpose than to be snarky. I completely understand if thereās good-natured teasing between men, but in written form, thereās always a risk that things are misunderstood, and on the other hand, there might be shortcomings in how something is presented. In oneās own mind, one might understand it differently than another. If Juurikki didnāt mean it as teasing, then based on that outburst, it felt a bit like an explanation to mend the situation, and thatās also okay. But then itās perhaps unnecessary to flaunt oneās book smarts if you didnāt actually understand Santtuās original āpatienceā comment.
Ultimately, this is just an internet discussion forum, and in my opinion, everyone has the right to mess around () if they donāt dare to do so in real life. Of course, within the rules. I belong to both categories, and if someone gets offended by my writing style, mistakes, or the dialect I use, oh wellā¦