Let’s make my own “base-building goal” public, to give myself a bit more motivation to stick to the plan.
Background & medical history:
Played football in the lower leagues until age 32 without any major injuries. The decision to quit gnawed at me so much that 10 years later I could no longer resist the call of the green spring pitches.
I spent a couple of years building a base with pure strength training - deadlifts, bench press, and squats became familiar. Once I hit a 200kg deadlift, 130kg bench, and 150kg squat, my recovery plummeted to uselessness. After even a slightly harder workout, I felt strongly hungover the next day. I certainly recognized the workouts were too intense. I just didn’t realize back then that for a desk jockey in their early 40s, even the “taking it easy” pace of a 20-year-old might be too much. Especially when life around the training wasn’t exactly supporting recovery.
Once I got my strength levels in order, I marched to my trusted physio to ask how to get that youthful speed back. I started casual football and mobility exercises.
Someone smarter might already guess what happens when a lower-league budget version of Romelu Lukaku (fit football condition 188cm/92kg) gets youthful strength levels back and even better mobility in some parts. Add to that 3x a week relatively intense ball-chasing in the summer, and 1-2x a week in the winter. Hamstrings and calves snapped every now and then. Stretching was useless. Every time I felt like I was getting into the best possible shape in every way, either a calf or a hamstring took a hit. This went on for a couple of years.
In 2020, a healthy-sounding ACL (anterior cruciate ligament) snapped in my knee. I canceled my surgery appointment and decided to quit football, only to return to light casual play after a year’s break and some minor knee rehab. The knee was completely asymptomatic, and light “taking it easy” slowly turned into agility maneuvering, which then resulted in a meniscus tear. The football gear went on Tori (local marketplace) that same evening.
I limped around super-passively in a bit of a slump for a while, and in the winter, I returned to the gym for light rehab. Thanks to my stubbornness, I repeatedly inflamed my already stiff shoulder because the machines forced unsuitable ranges of motion. Even though the workouts were “fairy tale gym” (very light), recovery was poor. Apparently, a vigorous self-massage of the shoulder finally inflamed the axillary nerve, and probably something else got inflamed too. The shoulder shut down completely for nearly a year. The orthopedist would have put in a prosthetic joint (osteoarthritis in the shoulder), the physio threw up their hands (rightly so), the osteopath recommended “tearing open the frozen shoulder” (wrongly), and even a top surgeon who cleared the cervical spine stated: “that might never return to its former state.” A specialist in physiatry gave the best and most realistic view. I also got familiar with a Kalevalan bonesetter and a nerve pathway massager. In the public sector, I’d probably still be waiting for a statement on the cervical spine scans. The healing prognosis was 1mm/day with the axillary nerve being 30-40cm, and it took about a year before I was able to control the eccentric phase of a knee push-up once without collapsing to the floor. During the first few months, I couldn’t hold my arm up while lying on my back; it would just fall limply in some direction.
Along with this, problems appeared in my pelvis and lower back. The lower back had been acting up during the football days, and now its condition collapsed. On a walk, my legs would go numb after just a few dozen meters. I was feverishly searching for information about my condition and considered buying a Fiskars shovel (wasn’t/isn’t in my portfolio) and having a hole dug ready as a viable option.
However, the physio squeezed out the root cause for the lower back and leg problems. They reckoned that only memories remain of the gluteus medius. Additionally, the gluteus maximus doesn’t really get nerve signals on one side and is very tight on the other. The TFL was also over-tight on one side, as were the hip flexors. The knee injury likely partly explained the “shutdown” of the glute on the same side and the imbalance. No wonder even walking was a chore.
Return to today
Thanks to precisely tailored glute exercises, my lower back is now completely asymptomatic. Now I can just jump out of bed in the morning! It even handles the mandatory long commutes without complaining.
For the last couple of years, I’ve been looking for the root cause of my symptoms, and at the end of 2025, I found it. “Lifestyle kyphosis” and a stiff thoracic spine, which was likely the underlying cause for the knee popping too. Smarter people feel free to correct me if I’m wrong:
Stiff thoracic spine + kyphosis → forces the shoulder blade into a faulty position and support for the shoulder is lost. Scapular support weakens. The joint capsule acts like a “limp mode” in a car, tightening and narrowing the shoulder’s range of motion to protect it. Even a light overhead press in a Smith machine doesn’t exactly fix the shoulder problem… Because the upper body’s posture has turned forward, the body compensates by tilting the lower body forward to maintain balance → hip flexors tighten. With a stiff thoracic spine, movement during running no longer comes from above but is attempted from the pelvis → the lower back gets tired. The lower back, glutes, and hip flexors continue to shift the load to the hamstrings → hamstrings get tired and tight.
Daily, gentle thoracic spine exercises have to some extent opened up shoulder mobility and hip flexors. The shoulder stiffness has completely disappeared. Even the hamstrings have loosened up without any stretching or strengthening attempts. I’ve never had a “Notre Dame” posture, but apparently, you don’t need one to go looking for trouble. The joint capsule has been tight for the last 10 years. There are no great hopes of it returning to its original state, but the current situation in this regard is already quite tolerable.
Apparently, it was such a hard lesson for the body that I still have to be very careful with training. At the moment, the body handles the following volume ~without complaining:
- 8k steps a day
- 3x/week “fairy tale gym” for the shoulder, mobility 90% and the rest very light strength restoration with sensible movements. Maybe I should focus more on innervation?
- 2x/week glutes+core+legs very lightly
- 6x/week thoracic spine exercises
- 1x/week 3 sets for biceps, triceps, chest, and calves very lightly
I look with longing at the kids training with “snot on their cheeks” (going all out) and with horror at middle-aged people doing the same. I no longer look at the “fairy tale gymnasts” with pity, though. 
I have now grasped my limited functional capacity and for the first time managed to tailor a rehabilitation program with low enough intensity for myself.
If I can’t give any other advice to other middle-aged casual hobbyists, it’s this: Learn to listen to your body. The wrong kind of pain is always a sign of potential challenges arriving. A symptom in one place can cause tightness elsewhere, and this chains up over time. An 8h trading/Inderes session cannot be offset by a 45-minute gym burst 4x/week. One fine day, you might have a bigger job ahead of you. For me, this physical collapse affected the mental side quite a bit too. Feels like going from a thirty-year-old to an eighty-year-old quite rapidly.
So, the plan is to drop weight alongside the exercises by spring from 98.7 kg → 92-88kg. The starting weight includes a couple of “easy” kilos from after Christmas.
- Daily deficit: -500kcal
- Macro split: Carbs: 16%, P: 32%, F: 52%
- Fat distribution: 10% of total daily calories from saturated fats
- Vitamin D, omega-3, and magnesium from supplements
People have argued about the right macro splits for ages. For me, the aforementioned works great, especially during a more passive phase, and I’m sure there are plenty of individual differences. Eating the same foods has never been an issue, though catering for the whole household is more of a chore.
I’ll get back to this by the end of April at the latest. If I’m not in my target range and feeling well by then, I’ll pay for a year’s subscription to Inderes Premium for one forum member chosen by a draw. More on the draw later if needed. 